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Southern Manners

Northern Manners Versus Southern Manners
Manners is something I pride myself on. I was born in New York City and grew up in Dallas, Texas and somewhere along those two big cities, I learned my manners. Being from the South, manners are something that is taught to you once you can walk. If you bump into a lady at the grocery story, your parents force you to say you’re sorry, or if you walk in front of someone looking at something on the shelf, you say, “pardon me,” and walk by really quickly. In this article I am giving my response to the article titled, "Big City Versus Small Town Manners" by Cortney Philip.

What I learned in my life is that you should always error on the side of being too nice. I have always opened doors for girls, called the elderly ma’am or sir, have proper table manners, say excuse me if I bump into someone, and I always say please and thank you. I would agree that making eye contact is a must in a small town, but even in Dallas, which I consider to be a pretty big town, I always make eye contact and say a cheery, “Good Morning,” or “Good Afternoon,” or at least a “Hello.” However, when I am walking down the street of New York City, I know never to make eye contact with anyone or say a greeting to. My roommate in college is from the Big City and she hounds me every time I accidentally make eye contact with someone walking the opposite way, or if I accidentally say, “Hi.” I have learned too, to play with my cell phone or iPod to avoid the stranger.


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The South has always been known for being well mannered regardless of city size.
When people think big city, New York City is a given.
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Elvis could have eaten anything, but his favorites were Southern-style 'everyman' foods
Joan Huff
Midland Reporter-Telegram
01/15/2008
Email to a friendPost a CommentPrinter-friendlyEach January, Elvis Presley fans from all over the world come together outside of Graceland Mansion in Memphis, Tenn.



, to commemorate his birthday. At exactly 12:01 a.m. on Jan. 8, fans begin singing familiar gospel songs and of course "Happy Birthday" to remember the "king of rock and roll," according to the official Web site dedicated to Elvis.



Elvis came from humble beginnings but he never forgot his roots. The successful musician and actor could have eaten anything he wanted, but when it came to foods his favorites were those that "everyman" could enjoy.


He loved good down-home cooking similar to what his mother served him as a child. His culinary tastes never strayed far from Southern-style cooking. Grits, black-eyed peas, ham and bacon, fried chicken, cornbread, mashed potatoes and homemade country gravy were just a few of his favorites.


Elvis did not like exotic or foreign foods. He also did not try dishes that contained unusual ingredients or had odd textures or flavors, according to the Web site. Therefore, most of the foods he consumed were basic hearty foods, the type Southern women cooked daily for their families.


At Graceland or at his home in Beverly Hills, Elvis specified what should be kept on hand in the kitchen. Must-haves included fresh lean ground round, hamburger buns, rolls, pickles, potatoes, onions, fudge cookies, assorted fresh fruit, canned sauerkraut, mustard and peanut butter. His refrigerator also contained at least three bottles of milk or half and half, thin-sliced lean bacon, vanilla and chocolate ice creams and freshly squeezed orange juice. Pepsi, Nesbitt's Orange and Shasta Black Cherry were his favorite soft drinks.


When the King was in residence at Graceland, also on hand were ingredients for his favorite snacks -- brownies and banana pudding. Both were made daily by the kitchen staff.


Elvis made the fried peanut butter and banana sandwich famous. He referred to it as a "peanut butter and 'nanner' sandwich." His love of this sandwich helped change this simple delicacy into his signature dish. He would ask that they be prepared for him at all hours of the day and night.


If you are a fan of Elvis and missed the birthday celebration, you have another opportunity later this year to join other devotees. Fans from all over the world will gather Aug. 9-17 in Memphis for Elvis Week. This is a commemoration of the music and memories associated with the legacy of Elvis Presley.Fans enjoy a week of music, dance, sports, social and charitable events. For more information, visit www.Elvis.com.




Peanut Butter and Banana Sandwiches


From "From Elvis' Kitchen to Yours"




2 large bananas


6 slices white bread


1 stick (1/2 cup) butter


1 cup peanut butter


Peel and mash bananas. Mix peanut butter with bananas thoroughly. Toast bread lightly and spread mix on bread. Melt butter in skillet and brown sandwiches on each side slowly until golden brown.




Banana Pudding


From "Are You Hungry Tonight?"




3 eggs


1/4 teaspoon salt


1/4 cup, plus 1 tablespoon, sugar


2 cups milk


1 1/2 teaspoons vanilla extract


1/4 pound box vanilla wafers (approximately 26 wafers)


4 medium bananas, sliced into 1/4-inch chunks


1 cup heavy cream


In the top of a double boiler, beat the eggs lightly. Blend in the salt, 1/4 cup of sugar, and milk. Cook over boiling water, stirring until the mixture coats a metal spoon. Remove from the heat and stir in the vanilla extract. Set aside to cool.


In the bottom of a 6 1/2 x 6 x 2 1/2-inch serving dish, arrange the vanilla wafers, overlapping them. Top with a layer of sliced bananas. Spoon in a layer of the cooled custard. Repeat layers, with custard as the top layer. Cover and refrigerate 6 to 8 hours or overnight.


Just before serving, whip the cream, sweeten with the remaining 1 tablespoon of sugar, and spread over the top of the pudding. Garnish with sliced bananas.




Biscuits and Red-Eye Gravy


From "Are you Hungry Tonight?"




Biscuits:


2 cups flour


4 teaspoons baking powder


2 teaspoons sugar


1/2 teaspoon cream of tartar


1/2 teaspoon salt


1/2 cup shortening


2/3 cup milk


Preheat the oven to 450. In a large bowl, combine the dry ingredients. Cut in the shortening until the mixture resembles coarse crumbs. Make a well in the center and add the milk all at once. Incorporate gently until the dough begins to stick together.


Knead the dough on a lightly floured board for 10 to 12 strokes. Roll or pat to 1/2-inch thickness. Try not to handle the dough too much. Cut the dough with a biscuit cutter or slice into squares with a sharp knife. Dip the cutter in flour between cuts. Transfer to an ungreased baking sheet. Bake for 10 to 12 minutes or until golden.


Red-Eye Gravy:


Drippings from 1.pound cooked bacon


1/3 cup strong black coffee


In a large cast iron skillet, heat the bacon drippings. Add the black coffee. Bring the drippings and coffee to a gentle simmer. Cook, stirring constantly, for 3 minutes.




The King's Grilled Tenders


From "Heart and Soul, Stirring Recipes from Memphis"




1 1/2 cups cooking oil


3/4 cup soy sauce


1/2 cup red wine vinegar


1/3 cup fresh lemon juice


1/4 cup Worcestershire sauce


2 tablespoons dry mustard


2 tablespoons snipped parsley


1 tablespoon pepper


2 cloves garlic, minced


3 1-pound pork tenderloins


For marinade, combine oil, soy sauce, vinegar, lemon juice, Worcestershire sauce, dry mustard, parsley, pepper and garlic. Cover and refrigerate for 3 hours.


Place tenderloins in a plastic bag set into a shallow dish. Pour marinade over meat. Close bag. Marinate in the refrigerator overnight, turning bag occasionally to distribute marinade.


Drain tenderloins. Place tenderloins on cooking grid. Grill, covered, directly over medium coals for 14 to 20 minutes or until no pink remains. Slice to serve. Makes 10 to 12 servings.




Country Kitchen Soup


From "Are You Hungry Tonight?"




2 tablespoons corn oil


1 1/2 pounds boneless pork shoulder, cut into 1-inch cubes


1 cup thinly sliced carrots


1/2 cup thinly sliced celery


1 cup 1-inch cubed potatoes


1 envelope dry onion soup mix


2 tablespoons sugar


Salt and pepper to taste


2 beef bouillon cubes


1 28-ounce can tomatoes, drained


1/4 teaspoon dried oregano leaves, crumbled


Dash red pepper sauce


1 10-ounce package frozen sliced okra


In a Dutch oven or large saucepan heat the oil. Brown the pork in the hot oil. Then add the carrots, celery, potatoes, soup mix, sugar, salt, pepper, 4 cups of boiling water, and the bouillon cubes, and mix well. Cover the pan and simmer over medium heat for 10 minutes.


Coarsely chop the tomatoes, and then add them to the soup with the oregano and red pepper sauce. Bring to a boil, reduce the heat, cover the pan, and simmer for 40 to 45 minutes. Gently stir in the okra for the last 15 minutes of cooking time.


Serve hot with crackers or cornbread.




Red Eagle Meatball and Spaghetti Dinner


From "The Presley Family Cookbook"




1 16-ounce package spaghetti


1 1/2 pounds ground chuck


1/2 cup chopped onion


1 teaspoon chopped garlic


Salt and pepper to taste


1 egg


1 tablespoon parsley flakes


3/4 cup bread crumbs


1/4 cup bacon grease


1/4 teaspoon butter-flavored salt


1 8-ounce can tomato sauce


2 cups tomato vegetable juice


Grated parmesan cheese, optional


Bring a large pot of water to a boil and cook pasta according to package directions. Drain. Mix ground chuck, onion, garlic, salt and pepper, then mix in egg, parsley flakes and bread crumbs. Form into balls and fry in batches in medium-hot bacon grease until browned on all sides.


Season the spaghetti with butter-flavored salt, pepper, tomato sauce and tomato-vegetable juice. Add meatballs to spaghetti and cover pan; simmer over low heat. Sprinkle with parmesan cheese, if desired. Makes 8 servings.




Elvis Presley's Favorite Pound Cake


From "Gourmet, September 2005"




2 sticks (1 cup) unsalted butter, softened, plus additional for buttering pan


3 cups sifted cake flour (not self-rising; sift before measuring), plus additional for dusting


3/4 teaspoon salt


3 cups sugar


7 large eggs, at room temperature 30 minutes


2 teaspoons vanilla


1 cup heavy cream


Special equipment: a 10-inch tube pan (4 1/2 inches deep; not with a removable bottom) or a 10-inch Bundt pan (3 1/4 inches deep; 3 quart capacity)


Put oven rack in middle position, but do not preheat oven. Generously butter the pan and dust with flour, knocking out excess flour. Sift together sifted flour (3 cups) and salt into bowl. Repeat sifting into another bowl (flour will have been sifted 3 times total).


Beat together butter (2 sticks) and sugar in a large bowl with an electric mixer at medium-high speed until pale and fluffy, about 4 minutes in a stand mixer fitted with paddle attachment or 6 to 8 minutes with a hand-held mixer. Add eggs 1 at a time, beating well after each addition, then beat in vanilla. Reduce speed to low and add half of flour, then all of cream, then remaining flour, mixing well after each addition. Scrape down side of bowl, and then beat at medium-high speed 5 minutes. Batter will become creamier and satiny.


Spoon batter into pan and rap pan against work surface once or twice to eliminate air bubbles. Place pan in (cold) oven and turn oven temperature to 350. Bake until golden and a wooden pick or skewer inserted in middle of cake comes out with a few crumbs adhering, 1 to 11/4 hours. Cool cake in pan on a rack 30 minutes. Run a thin knife around inner and outer edges of cake, then invert rack over pan and invert cake onto rack to cool completely.


Cake keeps, covered well with plastic wrap or in an airtight container at room temperature for 5 days.




The "King's" Cake


From "Mr. Food"




1 cup granulated sugar


1/2 cup vegetable shortening


2 eggs


1 teaspoon baking soda


2 cups all-purpose flour


1/2 teaspoon salt


1 cup mashed banana (about 3 ripe bananas)


2 teaspoons vanilla extract, divided


4 ounces cream cheese, softened


1/2 cup creamy peanut butter


6 tablespoons butter, softened


3 cups confectioners' sugar


1/4 cup chopped peanuts


Preheat oven to 350. Coat two 8-inch pans with nonstick cooking spray. In a large bowl, cream the granulated sugar and shortening until light and fluffy. Add eggs and beat thoroughly. Gradually blend in baking soda, flour, and salt. Beat in mashed banana and 1 teaspoon vanilla until thoroughly combined.


Pour mixture into prepared cake pans. Bake 22-25 minutes, or until a wooden toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean. Let sit 5 minutes then remove cakes from pans and place on a wire rack to cool.


In another bowl, combine cream cheese, peanut butter and butter; beat until fluffy. Add confectioners' sugar and remaining 1 teaspoon vanilla. Beat until thoroughly combined. Frost cake and sprinkle with peanuts.




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To Shag----a dance!

Be Young, Be Foolish, Be Happy
From Robert Fontenot,
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The enduring legacy of shag music
Unlike other musical-dependant social developments primarily associated with the Sixties, Shag music (often called "beach music") didn't have a scene to spring from, no primary city of development. Of course, the easygoing beach dances that used the name had a point of origin - the beaches of South Carolina, where white kids had broken the color barrier as early as the 1930s by convincing local DJs to add rhythm and blues to their lists. However, there were no bands dedicated to shag music during the movement's zenith in the mid-60s. Shag was one of those rare cultural events that picked its own music after the fact.

That doesn't mean there's no distinct sound or feel to the music. The shag dance is sort of a lazy jitterbug, done on beaches at night, always with someone of the opposite sex.

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Therefore, the music shaggers picked for their soundtrack had to be sunny, sexy, fun, and lazy. Depending on who you talk to, shagging can be done to songs as diverse as Elvis' "Return To Sender" and Marvin Gaye's "Sexual Healing," but the general consensus is that there should be a slow shuffle at the bottom and some sort of southern soul on top. The big hits of shag are almost all one-hit wonders, cherry-picked for their utility - Willie Tee's "Teasin' You," the O-Kaysions' "Girl Watcher" - but that also gives the scene room to breathe. And, as has been proven by its continuing popularity, room to expand.

The Rhythm 'N Beach Network The first site to visit when you want to learn more about shag music exclusively. Beach music history, shows, and collectors' information.
Chairmen of the Board The official site for these soul legends and undisputed kings of shag music. Beware the embedded MIDI, however.
TheTams.com The Tams were beach legends responsible for hits like "Be Young, Be Foolish, Be Happy" and "What Kind Of Fool (Do You Think I Am)." This is their official site, and it contains a bio, as well as sound clips of their biggest hits.
Willis Blume Agency: The O'Kaysions Now a show band, this soul group is most famous for their beach classic "Girl Watcher."
BJ's Carolina Coast Scroll down about halfway and listen to RealAudio samples of shag's greatest hits!
Betty B's Bungalow: Shagger's Play List Sampler A great series of playlists, broken up by category, that will help you assemble your own killer shag CD or party.
Ripete Records A great place to purchase some of the newer beach music bands - and some classic oldies as well.
The Cammy Awards Recognizing outstanding achievement in Carolina beach music.
Shagdance.com Sponsored by the official Carolina Shag Club association, this site is the first place to go for shag dance info. Deals with shag as a continuing phenomenon, although there's some history as well.
Carolina Shag History From Cornell University's Swing Dance page comes this excellent history of how the dances themselves evolved.
Shag Dance Videos Over a dozen instruction videos that will take you from a beginner to an expert.

Southern Music

GREAT ARTICLE FROM SOUTHERNMUSIC.NET

1990s
The Black Crowes released Shake Your Money Maker.

March 1992, NBC announced Branford Marsalis will take over as Music Director and Arranger for "The Tonight Show with Jay Leno."

Country artists, Travis Tritt, Marty Stuart, and Alan Jackson, brought new fans to country music.

Chris Whitley's debut album, Living With The Law, was acclaimed by both critics and the popular press. Entertainment Weekly names this as one of the "100 must-have rock albums."

Sheryl Crow was born and raised in a small town in Southeastern Missouri and grew up listening to music from Memphis. A&M Records released her Tuesday Night Music Club in 1993.

Isaac Tigrett from Jackson, Tenneessee, opened the first House Of Blues in 1993.

Collective Soul from Stockbridge, Georgia, hit the big time in the Spring of 1994 with their hit single "Shine."

In 1994, Hootie and the Blowfish released Cracked Rear View.

According to the Record Industry Association of America, 35% of all compact disc, cassettes, music videos, and LPs sold in the U.S. in 1995 were purchased in the Southern region of the United States.

Little Richard, B. B. King, Wynton Marsalis, Al Green, and other musicians performed during the three-hour ceremony of a massive "Southern Jamboree" jam session to close the 1996 Summer Olympics in Atlanta.

After the release of their 1996 self-titled debut album, it didn’t take long for Nashville’s groundbreaking country band BR5-49 to move beyond the thriving "Lower Broadway" music scene.

With sophomore album All the Pain Money Can Buy, the Austin, Texas trio known as Fastball fulfill the potential of their 1996 debut, "Make Your Mama Proud."

"Blood on the Fields" by Wynton Marsalis, premiered on January 28, 1997 at Woolsey Hall, Yale University, New Haven, Connecticut. Mr. Marsalis wins the Pulitzer Prize for music.

Lyle Lovett wins the 1997 Grammy Award for Best Country Album.

Fourteen-year-old LeAnn Rimes' debut record, "Blue," entered Billboard's country chart at number 49, making Rimes the youngest country singer to debut that high.

Erykah Badu released Baduizm and LIVE in 1997

Ben Folds Five, Deana Carter, Junior Brown and The Squirrel Nut Zippers hit the road in 1997.

Rounder Records released The Alan Lomax "Collection Sampler" ...the most sweeping portrait ever assembled of American vernacular music . . . (Elijah Wald, Boston Globe), . . .Alan Lomax, one of the secret shapers of 20th-century culture . . . (New York Times).

Feb 10, 1997--Westinghouse Electric Corporation (NYSE: WX) and Gaylord Entertainment Company (NYSE: GET) announced a definitive agreement whereby Westinghouse will acquire, through a plan of merger, Gaylord Entertainment's two major cable networks ­ TNN: The Nashville Network and CMT: Country Music Television.

Southern Culture On The Skids released Plastic Seat Sweat in 1997.

YOURSELF OR SOMEONE LIKE YOU, the debut album from Grammy-nominated matchbox20.

The Grammys 98 - Aretha Franklin, who had already rocked New York's Radio City Music Hall with "Respect", topped herself by stepping in at the last instant for ailing opera star Luciano Pavarotti and blowing everybody away with "Nessun dorma", the hero's big aria from Puccini's Turandot.

Master P made Forbes list of Top 40 Entertainers

Shawn Mullins- After grinding it out for years, his song "Lullaby" finally caught the attention of 99X, an influential Atlanta "new rock"-format radio station. Columbia Records signed Mullins and re-released his CD, Soul's Core.

The most talked about act in country music was also the best selling as the Dixie Chicks debut disc, Wide Open Spaces, was declared quadruple platinum indicative of over four million albums sold.

Rolling Stone cover girl Britney Spears' . . . Baby One More Time was one of 1999s biggest-selling pop albums.

1999 - Lucinda Williams wins Grammy For "Best Contemporary Folk Album" CAR WHEELS. #1 in "Village Voice" pop critics poll! "4 1/2 Stars" - Rolling Stone "Album of the year" - Spin

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LEE BROTHERS
Cooks tout the joys of Southern food
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San Antonio Express-News
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Matt Lee and Ted Lee call themselves ``would-be Southerners.''

That means they were born in New York. But, as a bumper sticker might have you believe, they got to the South as fast as they could.

In their case, the destination was Charleston, S.C., home of such Low country culinary favorites as shrimp and grits, boiled peanuts, Frogmore Stew and she-crab soup.

CATCHING CRABS

The brothers were young when the move occurred, and they quickly slipped into the more rustic lifestyle, which included the fun of luring blue crabs. ''To two kids from New York, it was like the most magical thing we'd ever seen,'' Ted said during a recent cooking class in San Antonio.

Years later, after the Lees graduated from college, ''we found we couldn't get boiled peanuts and all the stuff we'd come to love, like grits,'' Matt said. ``In our dejection, we came up with this idea: We'd introduce boiled peanuts to New York and make them hip to the New York bar set.''

But they couldn't interest a single bar in serving the snack. So, they set up the Lee Bros. Boiled Peanuts Catalogue, from which people across the country could order their favorite Southern foods.

The New York Times ran a small item on the hand-stitched catalog, and it drew a huge response. Calls came in from all over.

Soon, the two were doing more than selling Southern food. They were selling Southern food stories to Travel + Leisure magazine, The New York Times and other publications, plus they started work on their first cookbook,The Lee Bros. Southern Cookbook: Stories and Recipes for Southerners and Would-be Southerners (Norton, $35), which won the 2007 James Beard Award for Cookbook of the Year.

But it's not easy selling everyone on the joys of such foods as Jerusalem artichokes, lard or okra. ''Researchers tell us [okra] is America's most hated vegetable,'' Ted said.

Yet if you treat okra right, the flavor may surprise you, the Lees said.

They like to cook out the rope, or slime, as it's often called, in a dry skillet. This method 'serves two functions: it cooks out most of its `rope,' and it gently caramelizes the okra, giving it an appealing toasty flavor,'' they wrote in their introduction to a recipe for a silky, seductive Corn and Okra Pudding.

Frogmore Stew doesn't have frogs in it, Matt said. Instead, the name came from the town in South Carolina where it originated. Blue crabs, shrimp and pork sausage all merge with corn, celery, onions and potatoes in a spicy broth that's perfect for a picnic or an informal gathering.

In the South, all of the ingredients are generally boiled together, a one-pot wonder. The Lees have slightly refined it by adding the shrimp at the last minute, so they don't overcook.

In their recipe for cheese sticks, they insist on extra-sharp Cheddar so the cheese balances the heat of the chile used. But they're not picky about the form. You can press them into crackers or roll them into small balls if you don't like straws.

ANY SHAPE

''You can cut it into whatever shape you want,'' Matt said. ``We just like the architectural bravado of the cheese straw.''

When the Lee Brothers were young, that Southern staple, ambrosia, came as a bit of a surprise. They had never tasted anything so sweet served alongside a savory entree.

''Marshmallows and mayonnaise?'' Ted said, still somewhat nonplussed at the popularity of the salad, which also features canned oranges and sweetened coconut.

So, the Lees' New Ambrosia took the citrus angle and went in a different direction. Freshly peeled orange and grapefruit mingled with cucumber and celery in a buttermilk dressing. Avocados were used instead of marshmallows, but unsweetened coconut was included as a nod to tradition.

The end result was a savory salad, full of contrasting textures and layers of flavors. It was bright and summery, but it was too radical a departure for some.

CUTTING SWEETNESS

The same held true of the pecan pie that used sorghum instead of corn syrup as a way to reduce sweetness.

To each his own, the Lees said. ''We're all about personalization,'' Ted said. So, if your taste runs to corn syrup, use it. If you don't like cucumber, try jicama.

The brothers don't write together. One will write, then pass it on to the other. Yet their stories seem to flow together seamlessly. ''I don't think we've ever fought about the direction of a story,'' Ted said.

Their class followed in the same manner, with one talking while the other cooked. Once a recipe was finished, the duties reversed.

Yet everything in the class worked its way back to the traditions they learned in Charleston, New Orleans, Mississippi and the rest of the South.

THE DIFFERENCES

''Folks who haven't done much exploring in the South tend to see its cuisine as monolithic and singular,'' they wrote. ``But what immediately became apparent as we traveled throughout the southeastern United States is just how differently people eat from place to place.''

Yet no matter the differences and the diversity, as Ted said, ``Our engine of inspiration is the South.''

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Kiss my grits The classic Southern comfort food stands up to lots of flavors
Wednesday, January 16, 2008BY NAN BAUER Ann Arbor News Bureau
As Southern as Georgia peaches, Scarlett O'Hara and all those crazy people in Faulkner novels, grits inspire strong reactions. People love or hate grits, one of those foods where the middle ground is relatively unoccupied.

Like cornmeal, grits are the meal that results from pounded dried corn hominy - corn processed in water with lime (the chemical, not the citrus) and wood ash, which makes the kernels shed their hulls and puff up to larger than normal, as well as take on a distinctive, subtle flavor. Once dried, the hominy gets pounded into a coarse meal, and you got you some grits.

The name is thought to be a Southernization of "groats,'' the old Anglo-Saxon word for a thick wheat pudding. All I know is that if you ask a Southerner for a single grit, the way my mother once did, be prepared to get what can only be described as "one of those looks.''

According to Southern food gurus the Lee Brothers, the best type of grits are stone-ground; the flavor is superior due to a higher concentration of corn oil. The downside is that this variety is highly perishable, lasting only about three weeks, and therefore only recommended for the grits aficionado. It is also worth noting that many grits lovers are perfectly happy using commercial-ground grits from the supermarket. Only you can decide the discernment level of your inner Alabamian.

The hash browns of Southern diners and truck stops, breakfast grits tends to be served on the sweet side. The recommended proportion is 1 part grits to four parts liquid, preferably half milk and half water (with whole milk naturally providing the richest flavor). Commercial grits can do with a tablespoon of sugar to make up for the missing sweetness of corn oil still present in the stone-ground version.

Boil your liquid over medium-high heat, add your grits and stir constantly until you have a thick soup consistency, then simmer for a while longer. A famous scene in "My Cousin Vinny'' puts the time at around 20 minutes, a good guess. But to avoid the constant stirring, you can also whisk them into a crock pot and let them slow cook overnight. In the morning, violà: perfect grits.

Of course, like so many bland foods, grits are truly amenable to all sorts of additions provided you're not a purist. They're a natural foil to smoky bacon and sharp cheddar. Substitute chicken or vegetable broth for the milk/water mix, cut down the sugar, add cumin and a dash of chili powder, and top your finished grits with salsa cruda and grated pepper Jack cheese.

For the intrepid cook, they make superb soufflés. They make a great oatmeal replacement in meatloaf, and the biscuit recipe that follows features what has recently become something of a hot ticket, the combination of grits and shrimp.

Above all, accept the fact that some folks have deep grits antipathy, and they will never be won over no matter how you gussy the things up. For the grits lover, this can only be good news. More for you!

Roasted Garlic and Rosemary Grits Soufflé

Adapted from "The Lee Bros. Southern Cookbook: Stories and Recipes for Southerners and Would-be Southerners'' by Matt Lee and Ted Lee, W. W. Norton and Bros., 2006. Zingerman's sells Anson Mills stone-ground grits, but you can substitute quicker cooking grits such as Bob's Red Mill. Reduce cooking time according to package directions and skip the first step.

1/2 cup stone-ground grits

1/2 cup half and half

3 cups water

11/2 teaspoons kosher salt, divided

6 cloves garlic, unpeeled

1 teaspoon olive oil

2 egg yolks

1 teaspoon finely minced fresh rosemary

1/2 teaspoon black pepper

6 egg whites

3 tablespoons fine grated pecorino Romano

1. Place the grits in a small bowl; fill it with water. Stir gently, and, when grits settle, pour off any chaff floating on the surface and drain the grits.

2. Boil the next 2 ingredients and one teaspoon of salt in a 2 quart saucepan; add grits, reduce heat to medium. Stir constantly 8 minutes, reduce heat to low, simmer for about 25 minutes, stirring every 2 or 3 minutes, until they are creamy and soft.

3. Brush the garlic with olive oil and broil until skin blackens. Let cool, then remove

skin and mash with the rest of the salt.

4. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. In a medium bowl, beat the egg yolks until creamy yellow. Slowly add 1 cup of grits, whisking constantly. When the mixture is smooth and a sunny pale yellow, add it to the pan with the remaining grits, whisking thoroughly, add the garlic puree, rosemary and pepper.

5. Beat the egg whites in a large bowl to stiff peaks. Fold them gently into the grits mix, until just combined.

6. Pour the mixture into 6 greased ramekins. Tie a strip of buttered parchment around the collar of each dish with twine; it should extend 3 inches. Sprinkle each soufflé with cheese. Bake on the middle rack for 35 minutes; soufflés will rise and be barely brown on top.

7. Remove from the oven and serve immediately; let guests remove their own parchment.

Shrimp and Grits Biscuits

Adapted from Southern Living Magazine, 2002.

11/3 cups chicken broth

1/8 teaspoon salt

1/3 cup quick-cooking grits, uncooked

1 tablespoon butter

1/8 teaspoon pepper

3/4 cup milk

3 cups all-purpose baking mix

11/2 pounds large, cooked shrimp, peeled and deveined

1 (3-ounce) package cream cheese

1 green onion, chopped

1/2 teaspoon hot sauce

1/2 teaspoon Old Bay seasoning

2 teaspoons lemon juice

Garnishes: sliced green onion, barbecue sauce

1. Bring chicken broth and salt to a boil in a saucepan over medium-high heat; add grits, and cook, stirring often, 5 minutes or until thickened. Add butter and pepper, stirring until butter melts. Remove from heat, and let cool 15 to 20 minutes.

2. Whisk milk into cooled grits; stir in baking mix until a soft dough forms. Turn dough out onto a lightly floured surface. Pat dough to a 1/2-inch thickness, and cut with a 2-inch round cutter. Place biscuits on lightly greased baking sheets. Bake at 425 degrees for 10 minutes or until biscuits are lightly browned.

3. Cut 24 shrimp in half lengthwise, and set aside. Process cream cheese, next 4 ingredients, and remaining shrimp in a food processor until mixture is smooth, stopping to scrape down sides.

4. Split biscuits in half, and spread cut sides evenly with the shrimp purée, and top with remaining shrimp. Garnish, if desired. Makes 48 appetizer servings.

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